A series of e-mails between Ozzie and Gum Shoe 50 Edited to put the e-mails in proper order. > > >--- Gum Shoe 50 wrote: > > > > I read your web page dedicated to your friend and roommate Lynn Murphy > > > > Raz Framulare shortly after her death. I waited until time had passed, > > > > giving you a chance to grieve her before I contacted you to set the record > > > > straight. You seem like a very compassionate & caring person. > > > > > > > > I’m glad that you chose the words.........” Lynn’s story,” “as I know it”. > > > > The REAL Lynn was neither compassionate nor caring. I always believed that > > > > what comes around, goes around. There was a side to Lynn that you either > > > > chose to ignore, or were unaware of. > > > > > > > > Lynn made life for many, a living hell. She was partially responsible for > > > > the breakup of two marriages that I know of. She pursued her victims with a > > > > passion. I find it so ironic that her husband left her for another woman, > > > > and "therein started her downward spiral". You see Lynn WAS the other woman > > > > in the case of the two marriages that she helped to destroy. Lynn crossed > > > > the line when she informed the young children of one of her married lovers, > > > > that she was having a long-term affair with their father. The children said > > > > nothing to their mother until they became adults and their parents’ marriage > > > > broke up. Lynn tormented her former lover’s family as recently as several > > > > years before her death. She just didn't let up. However, in the end, I > > > > encouraged her lover’s family to reported her to the authorities. The > > > > harassment only then finally ceased after at least a decade of torment > > > > by her. I could go on and on about Lynn’s viciousness, but what’s the point > > > > > > > > The only reason why I am writing to you is so that you know that there was a > > > > side to Lynn that you appear not to have been aware of. People are not > > > > always what they seem to be. Lynn was a master of disguise, an effective > > > > manipulator & a hurtful and vicious person. I have no compassion for her. > > > > She had no compassion for the families that she helped destroy. > > > > > > > > So in closing, I am sorry that I can’t say how tragic her death was, so as > > > > to be of some consolation to you. I can only say she got hers. What comes > > > > around finally did go around. > > > > -- > > >From: Ozzie Osband > > >Reply-To: Ozzie.@SpaceyIdeas.Com > > >To: Gum Shoe 50 > > >Subject: Re: Lynn Framulare > > >Date: Sun, 30 Nov 2003 11:29:09 -0800 (PST) > > > > > >Dear Gumshoe, > > > > > >Thank you for your message. OK, I'll admit it. The title should have been > > >"Lynn's Story, As I want To Tell It". Manipulative? I think I wasn't > > >suppossed to notice. Oh yeah, I noticed. But as an Ex of mine once said > > >about me, I have a very high "Shit Tolerance Level". Of course, I'm no > > >picnic to live with either, so Lynn and I had a pretty stable > > >relationship. I've been a "loner" most of my life, and lived with > > >roommates before where we each had our own seperate lives. I just handled > > >this relationship like those of my past. We also just happenned to share > > >the same bed. > > > > > >The "addendum" got put on the page at > > > http://Spaceyideas.Com/lynn/lynn.html because Lynn has some friends who always > > >saw her through "rose colored glasses", and I took some heat when I first > > >put up the page. > > > > > >The page seems to have had it's other intended effect, also. Her former > > >husband Robert must have done a Google search on her name, and found the page. > > >He got in touch with Lynn's brother. This news is through one of the Rosey > > >Friends whom I spoke with recently. I haven't heard from him directly > > >myself. I had no way to reach him, and I wanted him to know, so it's > > >another succesful "Mission Accomplished" in the task of putting Lynn > > >behind me, and carrying on with my own life. > > > > > >As I said on the web page, we were friends, and even lovers, but she was > > >really just my friend. I've lost other friends over the years, and some of > > >them were lovers I had MUCH more of a relationship with. Lynn had no > > >interest in any of my real passions; science fiction, ham radio, and > > >the space program. I liked to say that there was no frequency that I could > > >listen to on any of my radios that she liked. I'm a public radio news > > >junkie, and could put up with the classical music the rest of the time > > >(anything but opera). > > > > > >I'm moving on now, but the page is still up as a memorial to her, and a > > >way for anyone who may still be trying to look her up to know she's not > > >around any more. > > > > > >If you ever get to Central Florida, give me a call, and we can get > > >together for coffee or a beer and swap Lynn stories. It sounds like > > yours will top mine, however. :-)> > > > > > > > > > Ozzie > > > Robert Osband > > > > > >http://Spaceyideas.Com/ozzie/ > > >http://Spaceyideas.Com/launchfaq.html > > >mailto:Ozzie.@Spaceyideas.Com > > > > > >http://Spaceyideas.com/321/ It's MY area code, but I share. > > > > > > -- >--- Gum Shoe 50 wrote: > > Glad to hear that you are moving on with your life. Actually, I am in > > Florida, though not in central Florida. > > I just wanted you to know that all was not as it seemed to be with Lynn, > > but obviously you had some hint of the darker side of Lynn. > > The web page is no longer up, or at least I could not access it thru > > http://Spaceyideas.Com/lynn/lynn.htmlbecause > > Good luck in your future endevors. > > > > GumShoe > > > > == >From: Ozzie Osband >Reply-To: Ozzie.@SpaceyIdeas.Com >To: Gum Shoe 50 >Subject: Re: Lynn Framulare >Date: Sun, 30 Nov 2003 19:44:41 -0800 (PST) > >The URL is http://Spaceyideas.Com/lynn/lynn.html without "because" >attached (silly typo). It's still there. > >Good luck... > > > Ozzie > >PS: If you come up for a Shuttle Launch (when they get around to resuming >them), check out Space View Park for a Front Row Seat. >http://Spaceyideas.Com/spaceview.html > -- X-Apparently-To: n4scy.@yahoo.com via 216.136.175.215; Mon, 01 Dec 2003 20:03:07 -0800 Return-Path: Received: from 216.117.142.186 (EHLO viaoz.com) (216.117.142.186) by mta130.mail.sc5.yahoo.com with SMTP; Mon, 01 Dec 2003 20:03:07 -0800 Received: from ... (law14-f28.law14.... [64.4.21.28]) by viaoz.com (8.12.10/8.12.10) with ESMTP id hB241JAi010713 for ; Mon, 1 Dec 2003 23:01:19 -0500 Received: from mail pickup service by ... with Microsoft SMTPSVC; Mon, 1 Dec 2003 20:02:55 -0800 Received: from 64.12.96.238 by lw14fd.law14.hotmail.msn.com with HTTP; Tue, 02 Dec 2003 04:02:55 GMT X-Originating-IP: [64.12.96.238] X-Originating-Email: [gumshoefiveo.@...] X-Sender: gumshoefiveo.@... From: "Gum Shoe 50" Add to Address Book To: Ozzie.@SpaceyIdeas.Com Subject: Re: Lynn Framulare Date: Mon, 01 Dec 2003 23:02:55 -0500 Mime-Version: 1.0 Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed Message-ID: X-OriginalArrivalTime: 02 Dec 2003 04:02:55.0433 (UTC) FILETIME=[2A301390:01C3B889] Content-Length: 3929 Thanks for the correction on the link. It seems many people were looking for news of Lynn on the internet, I guess expecting or hoping for her demise. Either way, that is not a great way to be remembered.Too bad she chose that path in life. I still find it a bit amusing that she got hurt, the exact same way that she hurt others,(her being the other woman & torturing her victims & their families). I am sure she did not see the irony in this. She was too busy with her own pain not to realize that she inflicted that same pain on others. I'm told the space next mission will not be before Sept 2004. I was there Oct 29,1998 to see John Glenn go up again. It was exciting. Thank you for posting the web site, which I am sure brought closure for many people. Good Luck. I sincerely mean that.